Category Archives: Q and A
They Asked You to do WHAT?
What the strangest thing someone ask you to do with sex? Answer: My husband wants me to give him head when I’m taking a dump!
Safer S&M Sex
How do you practice safer sex if you are into S&M? Safe S/M is every player’s responsibility. Most S/M activities are low-risk for passing HIV and other STDs, but there are other safety concerns involved. Responsible S/M has always meant … Continue reading
Getting Off
Beat the bishop, choke the chicken, abusing the wicked stick, date Rosie Palm and her five sisters, beat the meat, drain the monster, flog the log, paddle the pickle, beat the stick, yank your plank and the list of euphemisms … Continue reading
Is it weird that nipple play arouses me?
In short –no. To help me with this answer I refer to Defiance Forever and Men Like Us: The GMHC Complete Guide to Gay Men’s Sexual, Physical, and Emotional Well-Being, by Daniel Wolfe.
Gag Me
Gags are usually associated with roleplays involving bondage, but that is not necessarily the case. The person who wears the gag is regarded as the submissive partner, while the one not wearing one is regarded as the dominant one. Even … Continue reading


